Tuesday, October 24, 2006

hey.

before i go back to the "god-forsaken place" at jurong west... just want to say a few things...


learnt a few weeks back from a friend... of the 5 love languages that we can express to our friends, family and (if u are attached), to your better half...

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Gifts giving
4. Acts of service
5. personal touch (physical)

yeah... jus wanted to add on that... the love languages that one will like to receive from people varies from individuals ourselves... and it also can vary from whom are we receiving the love languages from. for example, for friend A, i will like to receive words of affirmation from him, while for friend B, words of affirmation may not have so much an impact on me... so i guess.. it's not just important to know which is your strongest love language you want to be loved with... but also what kind of love language you like to receive from individual people... =) and may i suggest, that the more a person does not receive the amount of love language that he needs to feel loved by a person, the more likely he/she yearns to receive it from him/her. for example, if i feel that this person is cold toward me physically... and cos' i yearn to be his friend... in order to feel accepted, i yearn for that love language from him, and that is, physical touch. yup? and hope i m making some sense.. haha. maybe it's time to discover each other's love langauges. =)

tim.

Posted by Timo-mo at 9:22 PM